Valentine’s Day is nine days away and marketers are already in overdrive. I’ve pirated the spirit of one of the well-known Romantic poets, Elizabeth Barrett Browning (1806-61) and her most famous offering: Sonnet 43, How Do I Love Thee? to share my love of Melbourne, which has won yet another accolade as one of the best 20 cities in the world for 2024.
The original poem is engraved on my heart. A pendant with the words of the poem a gift from my husband John in 1983, along with a tiny silver elephant to remind me not to forget how much he loved me.
Remembering more precious after John died, but in 2020 the silver chain broke and because cancer returned with some new pals, I delayed repairs. Repeated scans and Xrays stipulate ‘no jewellery’, so like other non-urgent tasks, repairs will happen when I find the finances to get ‘a round TUIT.’
Why do I love Melbourne?
- I love the celebration of the arts – the visual and visceral – to see, touch, listen, relax, meditate and enjoy a range of inspiration and imagination representing our multicultural and diverse community.
- I love the quiet places and parks lush with greenery where people connect and appreciate nature in all seasons whether sunlight or twilight – to walk, sit, picnic and play and attend the many events organised throughout the year.
- I love the Birrarung flowing through the city connecting the sea and the mountains where it originates. To watch or participate on the river – the rowing canoes, ferries, cruises, pleasure craft and hire boats – even permanent floating restaurants.
Marvellous Melbourne
Marvellous Melbourne, majestic and beautiful
breathtaking reminder of how lucky we are
of all the world’s cities, you are the most liveable
Marvellous Melbourne, majestic and beautiful
caught in your spell, my obsession not curable
strolling Southgate’s walkways, beneath sun or star
Marvellous Melbourne, majestic and beautiful
breathtaking reminder of how lucky we are
Melbourne Arts Precinct, vibrant and alive
tourists and locals add culture and mood
walk Princes Bridge, there’s no need to drive
Melbourne Arts Precinct, vibrant and alive
Birrarung rippling, entrancing –– life thrives
stalls, dancing, busking; a rich variety of food
Melbourne Arts Precinct, vibrant and alive
tourists and locals add culture and mood
©mairineil2023
On Wednesday, I spent a glorious day in the city at The Lume with a friend visiting from Italy. Tanja as enthralled with our city as I am. Born in Germany and living in Italy she is much travelled and returns here regularly to take part in marathon swimming events bayside and sometimes interstate. We walked along Southgate from Flinders Street Station and she declared Melbourne ‘has it all’ – arts, sports, diverse food, music, public transport and is welcoming and friendly.
She recalled how we first met more than a decade ago at Mordialloc Station. Tanja was going into the city for the opera, and I was meeting friends at the cinema. We chatted on the train and discovered many things in common (apart from sports!). We swapped contact details and to add a cliche, ‘the rest is history’. I visited Torbole by Lake Garda in 2015 – a trip I’d never have made but for our chance meeting and new friendship.
I was excited to visit Connection and so was Tanja. I’m still trying to be ‘covid safe’ so avoid crowds indoors but The Lume is spacious. I waited until the school term started and the majority of workplaces returned.
Midweek outings are ideal (hurrah for retirement!) and both Tanja and I agree it was a magical experience. A wonderful use of digital technology and brilliantly curated. I sat mesmerised absorbing First Nation stories, artwork, photography, songs and narration, as well as the audience reactions – especially those of young children. A ‘memory day’ as my daughters call many of the special activities we did when they were growing up.
What it does is it gives artists another outlet to share a story. Some people are going to be so comfortable walking into a gallery and experiencing the story that way, some people like to listen to it, some people like to wear it…
Sarrita King
Gurindji PeopleAboriginal art expresses the possibility of human intimacy with landscapes. This is the key to its power: it makes available a rich tradition of human ethics and relationships with place and other species to a worldwide audience.’
Marcia Langton
Aboriginal activist and academic.
There are smaller rooms to experience other facets of Connection. You can wander, snap photos or videos and climb the staircase to experience the digital performances from a different perspective. The visitors replenished at intervals and the immersive sensory encounter on a continual loop featuring 85 Indigenous artists from 9 key cultural regions of the continent. ‘Curated tastes, aromas and a choreographed soundtrack’ allow you to ‘wander, play, dance and marvel as every surface becomes the animated canvas: floors, walls and guests alike.’
On St Valentine’s Day for many people thoughts turn to romantic love but there are different types of love: unconditional family love for parents or children; a deep friendship; a passion for a hobby, place, object, sport, cooking; a love of food, of travel … and as the quote above emphasises First Nation Peoples love of Country is essential for living and their connection to the land, sea and sky: “Country is not only a place of belonging, but also a way of believing.” BennyTjapaltjarri, Pintupi People.
LOVE is a great topic for writers
We link words together in our minds – what train of thought or other words does LOVE inspire to you? What emotional reaction? Attitude? Love conquers all – or does it?
What is the sound of love? The smell of love? How do you recognise love when you see it? What is the taste of love? What is the touch of love? Is it always necessary to say the words ‘I love you’ out loud? Is St Valentine’s Day a special day for you – why? (It was a great topic/theme when I was teaching writing classes and these are some of the starting points we explored as inspiration.)
Love The Day (a Triolet)
Valentine’s Day, a day for lovers
Mr or Mrs Hallmark tell me so.
A day for lovers under covers
Valentine’s Day? A day for lovers!
A day when you forsake all others
A day that costs a lot of dough
Valentine’s Day, a day for lovers
Mr or Mrs Hallmark tell me so!
©mairineil2018
A fortnight before Tanja and I visited the city I met another dear friend for lunch. We walked along the riverbank too, but the opposite direction of Southbank. On our catch-ups Uma and I often visit exhibitions at the NGV or State Library, or meander through a park. Our friendship began decades BC (before children). Whenever we meet there is always something new to learn or experience as well as discussing shared interests like reading, writing and travel.
I had never been into The Transit bar at Federation Square and Uma said the rooftop gave a fabulous view of the city – especially at sunset (I made a note for the next time I’m in the city in the evening!). I’m always interested to look or learn from another perspective and even although the bar didn’t open until 3.00pm the young man on duty welcomed us, ‘Sure, have a look around.’
Uma was right, the view fabulous.
To end the post focused on my love for Melbourne here is a poem I wrote after another day in the city with Uma when we went to the NGV – a favourite destination. We have seen several of their special exhibitions together and on the way we meandered through the Alexandria Gardens.
A spring in my step
The weather gloriously, sunny on Tuesday
for a ‘catch-up with friends day’ arranged
Melbourne Town Hall bedecked with flowers
revealed marigolds with parsley not strange
the Alexandra Gardens another delight
blossoms posed in eye-catching display
giant spear lilies nodded to visitors
a stunning welcome to brighten the day
Melbourne earns the title of Garden City
our parks provide beauty and leisure
thanks to workers who toil in all weather
making green spaces important treasure
the Birrarung now full to the brim
duck families enjoy results of the rain
La Nina challenging usual activities
to ducks water is their champagne!
a wander towards the Arts Centre
‘Billy Buttons’ a new floral sight
golden drumsticks aptly positioned
where buskers a frequent delight
Melbourne you’re too easy to love
with wonderful trails to explore
heritage building and walking tours
home tourism can make spirits soar
©mairineil2023
I received a reminder that 2024 is the Year of the Dragon and Chinese New Year is almost upon us. Melbourne has a wonderful program of celebrations planned – another good excuse to explore the city – if you need one!
The Year of the Dragon brings an opportunity to focus on heart and health – physically and emotionally. It suggests we seek and do joyful activities, connect with love ones and be happy. Great aspirations, especially after the pandemic years so here’s to a great year ahead for everyone.